How does someone tell someone else that they are abusing their p

Wildwood - How does someone tell someone else that they are abusing their power by not sounding weak and angry and defensive? Why not go on the attack? Why not just roll over? How does a human being, a nation guard themselves against physical and mental judgment? How does and individual or nation stand for what it believes without sounding unstable? Our world today, individually and economically and socially and politically unstable. Mental health? Justice for all? People, places and things. Who are We?