Being aware does not have to mean being afraid. When someone rolls their eyes at you and uses nonverbal expressions and attitudes and you call them on it - who is the guilty party and who is the victim? Who set up the scenario in the first place? Race is such an easy set up for those who want to fight. The world does not revolve around one person's attitude. What's the difference between rolling your eyes and nonverbal attitude and verbally labeling the attitude? Nothing.