Your life must have been awful for you to think other people to say the things about how the father basically ran everything in the house. None of that was true in my household, no .My mother did not work but she did things for herself that she enjoyed. For you to think that people took advantage of us for helping them, oh my your thinking is so screwed up! As a kid I really didn’t care what nationality or race anyone was, I was brought up to talk to everyone. Again , 50s were nice years growing up, if you didn’t, oh well.