To Cape May Court house about getting estimates and not respecting your wife and going to you. First I am a female and do all the calling for estimates, your wife needs to be assertive and tell them she is making decisions and you should not be talking to them. I ran a business and my husband and I discussed things but I did all the calling, some owners did not want to listen to me like I didn’t know what I was talking about. My husband backed me up always, and the business was successful. Your wife needs to expect respect, otherwise they will run all over her. Good luck