I would be more inclined to "help thy neighbor with monatery donations" in my community if the "neighbors" that are always being helped with handouts from the community didnt just post they were going on a vacation with their kids, buying a new car and just bought themselves a brand new set of fake teeth. But yet are still sending their kids to school reeking of cigeratte smoke, cat urine and dirty clothes with holes in them. There is helping people that are in need, then there is straight up enabling them.