Don’t make a habit out of it, but use a sick day or personal day along with you spouse. A spontaneous day off does wonders. Take the vacation, your spouse and kids will always remember it. Go out to dinner, the whole family can use a treat. Tell you family that you love them every chance you can, you went get to do it anymore when they have died. Hold hands frequently and don’t be embarrassed to hold hands in public. Nobody will think less of you if they hear you tell your spouse or kids, “I love you,” when you end a phone call. Life is much shorter than you think.