What was normal 40 years ago is abnormal today. Think about some of the changes: Police in schools. Schools were a safe place in the worst of neighborhoods. Sixty percent of birth announcements with two names. What happened to marriage? Political correctness as a substitute for truth. People contact with senses vs. social media through Facebook. Thank you for a present, not a copy of a cancelled check. Children organizing within themselves vs. controlled activities. Polite behavior vs. rude. Have we lost control? What went wrong?