I am an 18 year old woman, 5' 6" and 145 lbs going to College next fall. My Brother is 6' 4" and 230 lbs and a weight lifter. He played Baseball in High school. I am going to play Soft ball in College. Would it be right if my Brother played on the soft ball team also AS a "woman"? He can hit a soft ball 3 times further than I can.