I may not always agree with Pastor Rudy, but I have not disagree

Philadelphia - I may not always agree with Pastor Rudy, but I have not disagreed until reading his Jan. 13 column. The use of the word bitterness doesn't seem appropriate. If a loved one does something to hurt you, it is "hurt feelings" that may haunt you, not bitterness. The offending party may not be aware of their harshness. Consider talking the incident over with the offending party. Air out your frustration in a sensible manner, and move on. If after discussing the incident and still not having closure, remember all relationships are not worth saving. The offender may be the bitter person, just move on.