I thought religious leaders are supposed to be welcoming, friend

Sea Isle City - I thought religious leaders are supposed to be welcoming, friendly, pious, uniting good stewards who are entrusted with something that is not theirs and are to treat it well. I keep shaking my head every time I go to my church, asking myself why both the pastor and the deacon fight with us, parishioners, who were born and raised here. Our parents, our grandparents, and our money keeps the church going. Some Christian spirit we have at St. Joseph in Sea Isle. Both need to go back to seminary to learn human relations 101.