Recent spouts about primary and secondary homeowners in the shor

Lower Township - Recent spouts about primary and secondary homeowners in the shore communities annoy me. I came to Cape May 35 years ago. It was an idyllic, beautiful, small town. Of course, I understand visitors who discover the towns and want to own a home. However, why do they have to change the towns they fell in love with? Huge homes (that are ridiculous), getting involved in politics and forcing changes we don't need or ask for, etc. If they love the towns so much, why can't they let them stay the same? We live here to escape the lifestyle of urban areas, let us be!