Some people who move down to Cape May County have done extremely well because they quickly learned you have to go along to get along and prosper. There have been many who arrived here thinking they were the “big cheese” and they could throw what they consider “money” around under the guise of “improvement”thinking they could then do whatever they want, and things didn’t go so well for them. The “locals” did however, enjoy a delicious fondue when the big cheese left. Down here it’s not what you have, although some have much, but what you are. Assimilate, don't alienate.