As we get older and experience life, we think about our lives and decisions that we made,good and bad.The one thing I have lived and witnessed is that followers are the ones that sit in jail and followers are the abused and unfortunately some even commit suicide.The life of a follower begins in early childhood by over bearing parents that threaten and bully their kids.Children cope by obeying the leaders as such we do throughout life.As parents how can we parent our children in a more positive way?Is it too late to change and reverse what damage that was done? You won't known until you try.