Who is paying for the second reception that the Pastor of Notre Dame De La Mer had after his installation? Parishioners were invited to a reception at St. Ann's school gym immediately following the installation but not to the hotel reception. Since all the parishioners were not invited to the second reception and it was an invitation-only event, the pastor should pay for his second party himself. Worse than mismanaging money, he denied the parishioners the sacrament of Reconciliation on the weekend of Oct. 10 due to his second installation.