As a mother who works full-time to take care of her child, who doesn't qualify for assistance, it's a shame to see other women who don't work having no problem going out two to four nights a week to a bar, spending money that could be put to better use, like on their children. If you are fortunate to have the opportunity to be a stay-at-home mother whose kids are all at school, please make sure your kids come first and you're not on assistance from the state.