Someone asked me today what’s it like to be 34 years as a Bartender. Well, if you have the patience of a saint, that “might” work; otherwise your life consists of this… Your personal life is non-existent. You work long hours. You never know when “closing” is… You can’t have a relationship. You can’t be married. You can’t have kids. You can’t have plants. You can’t have pets. You cannot attend funeral’s. You cannot randomly, date. It makes no sense even to have a car. You have to be “clutch” with the flow. Ready and stocked. Go with the flow, be yourself and be nice.