Let this be a lesson to all those new arrivals in their new homes who thinks running a bed a breakfast for their friends and relatives at substantial cost and inconvenience stays fun. Small close group?, sure why not?, your friends cousins brother? Perhaps not. Have a shore house? You’re in demand. Run out of money trying to be an impressive host? Your fringe friends will move on to the next “host”: some accept that, some don’t, but imagine if you were forced to house them until they’re willing to leave?, You wouldn’t like that would you? That’s what kindness can bring if not careful.