Court House Re: I'm with you on this! Every night I get into a flashing war at least 5 times. The best part is I don't ever use my high beams, they aren't effective for me. Another thing people don't realize is vehicles were made so if the fog lights are on and you turn your high beams on the fog lights go off. You can't use both at the same time so that's one indication that will tell you if a vehicle has high beams on. I didn't go put after market bright bulbs in my vehicle so if you have an issue take it up with the makers of these vehicles. Flashing me gets you nowhere.