The country is forced again to face the fact that one man has fundamentally changed us. Simply stated, it’s as sobering and unsettling as that. He has changed what was until recently considered unacceptable behavior for our leaders. He has normalized bigotry, misogyny, racism, ageism, ableism, sexism. He has changed our relationships with facts. Now there are phony “alternative facts.” And, lest we forget, wave after wave of outright lies. He has changed the lives of millions who lost loved ones to COVID-19. It has made me eye my neighbors as racist, and traitors. America is left for dead.