To cape May about servers and tips, you do know in most restaurants the servers have to pay out to bussers and bartenders as high as 10% each for the time they work.. So the bussers should be doing those things you talked about. It is not up to you to judge what people claim on their taxes, especially when servers have to pay out. Know your facts before you only pay 12%, how cheap are you! Most people think all servers get to keep all that tip, not so, some places pull the tips from all servers. Tip correctly and good.