There are Christmas traditions many of us still enjoy. For example: hanging mistletoe, roasting chestnuts, 7 Fishes dinner, and so on. I recently posted this spout about such a custom: “It’s nice some people still keep their Christmas lights up until Epiphany.” ... My words irritated one reader bigtime. They said I am being a “judge” over others and their decorating. They also said my “complaining” is a poor way “to start the new year”. … I’m scratching my head, pal. Please help me out. From what I wrote, how are you making your conclusions? … If you think you are being judged, that’s on you.